TYOLD Travelogue: The Reunion

Back on Day 119, my Differently for the day was making arrangements to go to my 30 year high school class reunion.  I went a few weeks ago and thought I would use that to kick off a travel series of Differentlies as I head off to Las Vegas, Atlanta, and Savannah, Georgia for my birthday vacation.

First of all, Allegiant?  You are no first class on Virgin America.  First class on Virgin America kicks sand in your face.  Although to be fair, first class on Virgin America is not $340 round trip and doesn’t go to Cedar Rapids, Iowa, so beggars can’t be snooty first class choosers.  Still, the fee-ing frenzy is mind boggling – I’m pretty sure I heard them say “should there be a change in cabin, pressure, yellow oxygen masks will drop from the compartment above you at which point you will need to swipe your credit card to start the flow of oxygen.”

But they got me here more or less on time on Friday but then I got waylaid by an epic wait for my suitcase.  Seriously, there are six gates at the Eastern Iowa airport – the plane was like 27 feet from the baggage carousel and it took almost 30 minutes between the time we got to the gate and the time the bags arrived.

The driving excitement Enterprise was going to give me was not at all exciting – is there anything in the world more boring than a 2013 Chevy Impala? – so I upgraded to a sparkly new GMC Acadia with all sorts of bells and whistles and, it turns out, an epic thirst for gasoline.  Sorry Earth.

Driving in from the airport I played the “that used to be…” and “I remember when we went there and…” game all the way to my hotel.

Cedar Rapids is a nice little city but it really has very little in the way of Midwestern charm except for, perhaps, in the people.  This is not Mayberry or Stars Hollow – there is no cute town square or bustling historic section.   The Downtown area is still trying to come back from a really devastating flood in 2008 but even before that it wasn’t really a destination.  Instead, what you get with Cedar Rapids is chain heaven.  Chain restaurants, chain stores, chain hotels… when I tried to find the best restaurants in town online, things like Olive Garden came back in the search results.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m happy I grew up here and I’m sure that’s it’s probably still a great place in which to grow up and then live here if a quiet Midwest thing is what you’re after, but I wouldn’t put it too high on my list of vacation spots unless you want to buy your souvenirs at Target.

On my way in I stopped at the Maid-Rite for one of their famous loose meat sandwiches.  I still have a hard time explaining why this simple thing – ground beef on a bun – is so heavenly to me, but it is.  I’m sure it has to do with childhood memories, but I just can’t get enough of them.  I swear if I had the money, I’d open one in LA.  They are a chain, but primarily in the Midwest.

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Then it was off to the Homewood Suites by Hilton (chain), which is nicer than I expected it to be – it’s only one room so not exactly a suite, but it’s big, the furnishing are well-kept, there’s a full kitchen, and they have a free breakfast every morning.  I have gotten used to Las Vegas hotel rooms and so sometimes ones that aren’t sumptuous palaces with bathrooms big enough to park a plane in seem underwhelming.   It’s good for me to stay in “normal” hotels because this is what most people are used to and why Vegas hotel rooms are often so impressive.

I went to dinner with old friends Karla, Dawn, and Patty and by dinner I mostly mean drinking.

Then the first official event was at a bar called the Field House – basically a sports bar with lots and lots of Iowa Hawkeye paraphernalia, most of which I didn’t understand because sports?  No.

I have to admit I wasn’t terribly excited to go to the reunion.  As I have mentioned I didn’t have the best high school experience, but I wound up having a really nice time.  It was great to catch up with people that I wanted to see like the aforementioned folks and Tasha, plus people that I didn’t know that I wanted to see but had a great time talking to.  Below is a photo of Patty, myself, and Tasha – the three of us went to our Senior Prom together and I still think they are two of the best people on the face of the planet.

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When the reunion was winding down, Patty and Karla and I decided to head over to the Tic Toc Lounge, a dive of a place that had been a semi-regular haunt when we were in high school, not because of the ambiance but mostly because they would serve kids in high school.  I know, bad… shameful… whatever.

It was closing just as we got there and then Karla decided to pack in for the night but Patty and I soldiered on and wound up at the one gay bar in Cedar Rapids, Basix, which is in a former McDonald’s.  No, really.  They were having a drag show.  Interesting.

The next morning I met up with another friend from back in the day, Brenda, who wasn’t in our grade but was in town for a wedding and staying in the same hotel as me.  She crashed a tour of the high school, which started with the huge football stadium and aquatic center (neither of which existed 30 years ago) and then through the school itself.  There were ghosts of its former self but it was so different that I didn’t have any major flashbacks except for when I stepped into the old auditorium. Between choir and all of the plays I was in (yeah, I was that kid), I spent a ridiculous amount of time in that room and it gave me a bit of a tug in the brain and the heart.

There’s more after the photo of the new Linn-Mar logo, which gave me a great deal of enjoyment because I have now decided the official team name will be the Flaming Lions.

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For lunch it was back to the Maid-Rite with Brenda and Karla and more meaty goodness.

That afternoon I drove down to the Riverside Casino about 45 miles south of Cedar Rapids.  Nice place.  Didn’t win jack.

Back up in town I met Patty and another Class of ’84 alum Kristy at the Tic Toc to finally satisfy that particular craving.  I remember we used to get Tom Collins by the pitcher and that they had great hamburgers so I ordered both and was sneered at by the waitress who couldn’t believe I was ordering a Tom Collins in a place like that.  The burger was so-so.  You really can’t go home again, can you?

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After that was more drinking at another bar, Cocktails & Co., for the last of the official reunion events.  It was mostly the same folks as the first night but a few new faces and more great conversation with the ones I had talked to the night before.

Two observations… First, I was pleasantly surprised to find so many kindred spirits from a social and political perspective.  I’m often far too liberal for my own good but there were lots of folks there that had similar, if not even further left, views, which is not something you expect to get in a place like Cedar Rapids, Iowa.

Second, it was interesting to hear people’s stories about their experiences in high school that I had no idea about and then to share mine, which most people didn’t know about.  I hid my unhappiness fairly well, I guess.  But it sort of pointed out that everybody had “a thing,” you know?  Whether it was bullying or a rough home life or insecurity or pressure to achieve or whatever… everyone had something they were contending with that they, for the most part, kept hidden.  Fascinating.

The next day I embarked on a mini-Plucky Survivors style adventure across Iowa.

I started at the Amana Colonies, a Mennonite community about 25 miles southeast of town.  It’s got all sorts of throwback shops and restaurants with hand crafted and hand made and locally grown and the like.  I got some fudge, which made me happy.   My family used to go here a lot when I was a kid for special occasion Sunday brunches at a place called the Ox Yoke Inn so I tried to recreate that but the wait for the main dining room was an hour long.  Instead I went down into the bar where they had a limited menu but it wound up being heaven on earth.

I now have a favorite sandwich… the Bavari-Inn.  Hold onto something… it’s slow roasted prime rib… on top of smoked ham… topped with grilled onions, Swiss cheese, and horseradish.  Holy mother of God, this was a religious experience, no lie.  The Maid-Rite will always hold a special place in my heart, but this is now the winner in the best sandwich ever derby as far as I’m concerned.

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On the way out of the Colonies, I snapped a photo of the sign going into tiny Homestead, Iowa.  Why?  Because the TV movie I wrote that will hopefully get made some day takes place in a fictional version of Homestead, Iowa.  It’ll be nice to have this then.

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From there it was across eastern Iowa about 100 miles to the microscopic town of Gladbrook, Iowa to visit the Matchstick Marvels Museum.  It’s the place where a guy named Patrick Acton keeps some of his most awe-inspiring matchstick creations – everything from buildings to ships to the space shuttle and beyond.  Take a look at some of the examples…CR06

You sunk my battleship!

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The Iowa Governor’s mansion

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The incredible detail on the mansion.

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Sailing ship – all matchsticks.

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Space Shuttle Challenger.

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The US Capitol Building.

Then it was off to another casino (see above) and then back to Cedar Rapids where I tried a BBQ joint that had been recommended online and seriously disappointed.  Not even worth discussing.

So Iowa was a success and a lot of that has to do with the people that I got to see, many of whom have elected me to plan the 35 year reunion, which they think should be in Las Vegas.  We’ll see.

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ECAN Over the Edge Volunteer Call to Action

Hi everyone!

 I need your help!

I have volunteered be a co-chair of a fundraising effort to be held in May of 2015 for the Esophageal Cancer Action Network.  We will be organizing an Over the Edge event, where people raise money for the opportunity to rappel down the side of a tall building in Los Angeles.  It will feature a dozens of rappelers, VIP and media components, and a festival-like atmosphere at the “landing zone” with food, music, games, rock climbing walls, green screens for people who want to pretend they went “over the edge,” and more.  To get an idea of what an Over the Edge event is like, take a look at the website for the Miami Children’s Initiative, which is doing one in September of 2014:  http://www.miamichildrensinitiative.org/otem2014/home.shtml

ECAN is a group dedicated to raising awareness about a disease that ranks as the fastest growing type of cancer in the United States.  It is caused by a simple thing – acid reflux (heartburn) – but is one of the deadliest cancers, with less than 1 in 5 surviving longer than 5 years.  That number increases dramatically if it is caught early enough so education about the causes and treatments are critical.

As you know I am one of the lucky ones.  I was aware of the damage that acid reflux could cause and was monitored regularly for years until I was finally diagnosed with Esophageal Cancer in 2012 at a very early stage.  Through aggressive treatment I am now in remission and most studies say the chances that it will stay that way are very high.

To effectively fight this disease, ECAN is bringing together a community of individuals and groups who are concerned about the rapid increase in Esophageal Cancer cases and want to support the campaign for public awareness and the creation of more effective tools to detect and treat the disease. ECAN is dedicated to working for increased funding for medical research to battle Esophageal Cancer. Despite its distinction as one of the fastest increasing cancer diagnoses in the United States, Esophageal Cancer is currently among the most poorly funded cancers in terms of federal research dollars. ECAN and its network of supporters are working to change that with events like Over the Edge.

We are looking for volunteers to either lead or help on various committees.  The most urgent needs are for committee chairs for:

  •  In-Kind Donations – leads the effort to find goods and services for the event (from photographers and DJs to gift bags and more) and the VIP reception
  • Team Leaders & Recruiters – leads the effort to get people signed up to rappel and manages needs for them along the way
  • Celebrity Participation – leads the effort to find some famous faces to go over the edge (or at least watch from the ground below!)
  • VIP Reception – plans, budgets, and oversees the VIP event that will happen the night before
  • Website – recruit, design, build, and maintain an event website and aid in the development of fundraising pages on the ECAN website

Because this is an LA based event we would prefer people who live in the LA region for the committee chairs.

You won’t be doing this on your own!  We already have dozens of people who have raised their hands to help on the various committees and we only just started this effort a couple of weeks ago.

If you don’t have the time, energy, or desire to lead a team, we have spots for volunteers on various committees including the ones listed above plus:

  •          Building Committee
  •          Corporate Sponsorship
  •          Marketing
  •          Logistics
  •          Volunteer Coordination

Volunteers on committees can be located anywhere although some will need to be in Los Angeles for the event in May of 2015.

And of course we need people who want to raise money so they can rappel down the side of a building!  We’ll have more info on the specific location soon and will be taking registrations just after the first of the year.

If time is not your friend these days, don’t worry – there will still be plenty of opportunities to help later on including in-kind or money donations toward the event or sponsorship of someone who is going to rappel.

If you want to be involved, just shoot me back an email (rick.garman@yahoo.com) and tell me where/how you think you might be able to help.  If you have any questions, let me know.

Thank you!

Rick!

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